Telling

Let me tell you of my strange wrestle not to tell a woman I thought she was attractive. My impulse is to tell her, despite the fact she's unapproachable. At first I only felt impulse, but as I resisted, that impulse demanded explanation. The explanation was this: a woman does not want to hear she is beautiful from just anyone. Most of the time, the unexpected feedback is given by someone disinterested, and the rest of the time, this feedback is expected or hoped for.

In scenario, disinterested would not describe me.